Notes that were never meant to be read together, pulled from the same wastepaper bin. Simultaneous competence and incompetence is, as always, the Ministry of Magic's calling card.
Or, "Just write down ‘he had an aneurysm’ and move on."
Harry comes out as a trans man at Hogwarts to little fanfare or dramatics, because Wizarding society is like that. The Dursleys are another story.